Say what you will about Jack Chaney. He can be exceedingly inappropriate just to get a laugh. He isn't the best at fixing things around the house. We argue and we get frustrated with each other. He "forgets" to take out the trash sometimes.
But if you're hurting, he'll sit with you and listen and ask you questions and point you to the Creator God who made shadows move backwards and made iron float and who made everything out of nothing and who experienced suffering and death because He loves us. He'll sit with you and he'll do that because God made him a Jonathon, a friend, and he lives that out well. And so I'm proud to call him my husband.